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Hey everyone! It might be summer, but Anonymous Posts keep on rolling. Be sure to submit whatever is on your mind. Summer isn't always easy--whether it's being home or in a new environment--and we're here to support each other as we all navigate varying obstacles. Today's memorial day, so we want to recognize the women and men who've given their lives so that we can have the lives we do. We would like to especially honor those who were forced to serve our country and lose their lives while in the closet under Don't Ask, Don't Tell.
Now we've got two posts for you from OC:
This is an interesting article.
This isn't necessarily LGBTQ related, since I'm sure you could replace "gay bar" with "bar" and straight folks would have the same experience...but I didn't know where else to go for advice. See, at Duke, I never felt unsafe hooking up with a random student at a gay bar and I never felt unsafe going back to someone's room with them/bringing them back to mine. But now that it's summer, I don't know what precautions I need to take to keep myself safe. And I don't just mean sexually safe--condoms, dental dams, asking the right questions--I get that part. But how do I know if this random person I just met at the gay bar is a safe person for me to hook up with on the dance floor? I used to stick to hooking up with other students and felt like that did a good job of eliminating the super creepers. But now? And how do I know this person is safe to go home with, and/or bring back to my place? I'm sure what I experienced at Duke was a false sense of security. A Duke student can just as easily be a creeper and/or take advantage of me in their dorm room or Central campus apartment as a random person can in their real-life apartment or house, etc. But I can't help but feel that in the "real world" there are more risks. How do I navigate those?
Please remember that there are a number of resources available on campus and in the local community. resources are available over breaks and throughout the school year. If you or a friend are experiencing thoughts or urges to harm yourself or somebody else, please reach out to the following resources: In an emergency, please don't hesitate to call CAPS at any time, including "after hours" at (919) 966-3820. Ask to speak to the advice nurse and tell them you are a Duke student. You may also call the Trevor Project, a national hotline specifically for lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, queer and questioning youth (college students included). Their number is 866-4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386).