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Hey y'all, hope you're enjoying your summers. We've got one post for you today, so enjoy.
Here you go:
I've been to many other forums and talked to a lot of people, but I haven't found much help. A few years ago, I came out as being bisexual. I was interested in men, sexually and emotionally, and the same went for women. As time when on, I found that my interest in women was dwindling, so I started thinking, "Maybe I'm more gay than anything else". I started getting involved with guys, but I was struck by some episodes of impotence, which were pretty embarrassing. The thing is, I had more fun with those guys than most of my straight hook ups. But then why wasn't my penis cooperating with me? I think it made me afraid to be physical with a guy; I haven't done more than kiss another guy since then. When I've hooked up with girls, it's physically satisfying, but I feel like I'm lying to myself somehow after I finish. There are dozens of other oddities in terms of how I've been approaching relationships, but I could go on and on about all that confusion, so I'll just keep it short: It seems that my brain wants to be with men, while my penis only responds to women. How the hell am I supposed to get involved with anyone on any level if this is how I operate?
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